I am sorry if my query sounded sterile or clinical.My wife and I have both had dreams that we believe to have been concerning the spirits. I have had various times in my life where I have felt drawn to the path but it has always never amounted to,well,anything, as if it just wasn't a proper time.I feel that this may be a proper time.I just would wish to begin on the path in a correct and nurtured manner if possible. I have had some really good advice from Travis concerning the creation of an ancestor altar, and I will pursue it when my living conditions are more conducive to such an endeavor. I just figure that there must be something to it all if I keep finding myself back in a place where I feel the need to explore this possible relationship, regardless of the place in my life at the time.